The Really + Adjective Plague
Really, like words such as very, quite, absolutely, extremely, too, and dozens more, is an adverb of degree.
Adverbs have earned a shady reputation, and really is an adverb to avoid. Not to eliminate.
If your work in progress is plagued by really + adjective phrasing, you’ve come to the right place.
Check this Example
I’m really convinced this is the best alternative.
Really?
Let’s look at the definition of convinced: absolutely certain
Can a person be any more certain than absolutely certain?
Certain is an absolute (non-gradable) adjective, which means it doesn’t require an adverb of degree.
The sentence would be better without really: I’m convinced this is the best alternative.
Analyze Your Writing
Search for all instances of really. Are they necessary?
If deletion doesn’t convey the meaning you want, leverage the following list as a tool for creating alternate phrasing that kicks really to the curb.
But remember that really exists for a reason. Sometimes it’s the only way to express an idea.
See also Options for Really + Verb Phrases and Ways to Avoid Very in Writing.
Really + Adjective Phrases: A to G
really able: adept, adroit, competent, proficient, skilled
really abrasive: brusque, disagreeable, harsh, obnoxious, rude
really abstracted: brooding, distracted, distrait, inattentive, preoccupied
really affordable: budget, cheap, economical, inexpensive, reasonable
really amazing: extraordinary, incredible, miraculous, remarkable, staggering
really baffling: bewildering, inexplicable, mystifying, perplexing, stunning
really baggy: ballooning, billowing, capacious, oversized, voluminous
really bored: apathetic, blasé, disinterested, inattentive, oblivious
really broke: bankrupt, insolvent, overdrawn, penniless, ruined
really calculating: cunning, devious, guileful, manipulative, scheming
really callous: cruel, heartless, insensitive, pitiless, uncaring
really calm: collected, composed, poised, serene, unruffled
really careless: inconsiderate, irresponsible, negligent, reckless, thoughtless
really dainty: delicate, ethereal, exquisite, fragile, graceful
really daunting: fearsome, formidable, intimidating, overwhelming, unnerving
really dazed: disoriented, overcome, shocked, stunned, stupefied
really deft: adroit, agile, dexterous, nimble, sprightly
really delicious: ambrosial, delectable, heavenly, mouthwatering, scrumptious
really dependable: devoted, responsible, stalwart, steadfast, trustworthy
really depressing: bleak, dismal, dispiriting, dreary, heartbreaking
really disheartened: cowed, crestfallen, dejected, disconsolate, downcast
really eager: enthusiastic, fervent, keen, passionate, zealous
really easygoing: adaptable, carefree, casual, laidback, tolerant
really edgy: hysterical, oversensitive, stressed, tense, tetchy
really enjoyable: delightful, fulfilling, gratifying, rewarding, satisfying
really expansive: all-embracing, extensive, inclusive, vast, wide-ranging
really faded: bleached, dull, lackluster, shopworn, washed-out
really fancy: elaborate, ostentatious, posh, showy, swanky
really farfetched: exaggerated, implausible, improbable, unbelievable, unlikely
really faulty: broken-down, flawed, defective, inoperative, unusable
really favorable: advantageous, heaven-sent, positive, propitious, reassuring
really garbled: distorted, incomprehensible, indecipherable, indistinct, unintelligible
really grave: critical, dire, life-threatening, precarious, serious
really great: admirable, exceptional, incomparable, momentous, unprecedented
really grimy: cruddy, filthy, nasty, scummy, squalid
really groggy: befuddled, bleary, disoriented, muzzy, unsteady
really gusty: blustery, raging, stormy, tempestuous, turbulent
Really + Adjective Phrases: H to N
really haggard: exhausted, drained, gaunt, rundown, sapped
really handsome: captivating, knockout, gorgeous, striking, stunning
really hardy: hale, resilient, robust, rugged, tough
really henpecked: browbeaten, bullied, dominated, intimidated, whipped
really heroic: courageous, dauntless, gutsy, intrepid, valiant
really idealistic: impractical, perfectionistic, quixotic, unrealistic, unswerving
really iffy: dicey, doubtful, problematic, unreliable, unsettled
really ignorant: naïve, oblivious, unaware, unfamiliar, uninformed
really impressed: awestruck, dazzled, enthralled, spellbound, wowed
really inquisitive: intrusive, meddlesome, nosey, prying, snoopy
really lackluster: dull, lifeless, monotonous, unexciting, uninspired
really languid: apathetic, lethargic, listless, torpid, unenergetic
really laughable: absurd, ludicrous, pitiful, preposterous, ridiculous
really lax: careless, lenient, negligent, slack, slipshod
really lazy: indolent, laggard, shiftless, slothful, sluggish
really lenient: doting, forgiving, indulgent, liberal, over-permissive
really little: atom-sized, dinky, gnomish, minute, teensy
really lukewarm: apathetic, halfhearted, indifferent, unenthusiastic, unexcited
really macho: aggressive, chauvinistic, cocky, swashbuckling, ultra-masculine
really mannerly: civilized, decorous, genteel, polished, refined
really mean: cruel, despicable, malicious, nasty, vicious
really meek: acquiescent, passive, spineless, submissive, timid
really messy: chaotic, haphazard, littered, slipshod, slovenly
really moist: drenched, dripping, saturated, soaked, sopping
really monotonous: colorless, dreary, humdrum, tedious, wearisome
really naïve: immature, innocent, unsophisticated, unworldly, wide-eyed
really narrow: compressed, constricted, impassable, pinched, squeezed
really necessary: crucial, essential, indispensable, mandatory, obligatory
really negligent: delinquent, derelict, remiss, neglectful, slipshod
really noble: honorable, moral, principled, upright, worthy
really noisy: blaring, deafening, roaring, strident, thundering
really nosey: intrusive, invasive, officious, probing, voyeuristic
The Writer’s Lexicon series
and additional resources on my Facebook page.
Really + Adjective Phrases: O to W
really odd: bizarre, extraordinary, freakish, outlandish, zany
really ominous: apocalyptic, catastrophic, dire, menacing, sinister
really ornery: cantankerous, irascible, nasty, obstinate, waspish
really outdated: ancient, antiquated, archaic, obsolete, passé
really overcast: bleak, dismal, dull, gloomy, sunless
really papery: flimsy, fragile, gauzy, gossamer-thin, wispy
really peaceful: blissful, placid, serene, tranquil, undisturbed
really perky: bouncy, bubbly, buoyant, spirited, vibrant
really persistent: assiduous, determined, dogged, tenacious, unflagging
really petty: grudging, niggling, picayune, spiteful, vindictive
really plain: dull, homely, ordinary, stark, unadorned
really proficient: accomplished, consummate, expert, masterly, superior
really quaint: antiquated, charming, old-fashioned, picturesque, scenic
really quirky: eccentric, peculiar, unconventional, unique, unusual
really racy: improper, indecent, indelicate, lascivious, shocking
really ragged: dilapidated, shabby, tattered, scruffy unkempt
really regal: imperial, imposing, majestic, resplendent, stately
really relaxed: carefree, easygoing, mellow, nonchalant, unperturbed
really rickety: crumbling, neglected, ramshackle, tumble-down, wobbly
really sick: bedridden, critical, dying, hospitalized, incapacitated
really slim: emaciated, scraggy, skeletal, skinny, undernourished
really special: exceptional, extraordinary, phenomenal, outstanding, unprecedented
really stern: draconian, harsh, severe, strict, tough
really stubborn: immovable, inflexible, obdurate, uncompromising, unyielding
really surprised: astounded, dumbfounded, flabbergasted, staggered, stupefied
really talkative: babbling, garrulous, gushy, verbose, wordy
really thirsty: bone-dry, cotton-mouthed, dehydrated, parched, ultra-dry
really timid: faint-hearted, reticent, timorous, unassertive, weak-kneed
really tipsy: addled, drunk, inebriated, intoxicated, woozy
really tough: arduous, challenging, daunting, difficult, exacting
really underhanded: corrupt, devious, dishonest, low, scheming
really uninspired: bland, insipid, stale, unimaginative, unoriginal
really unswerving: constant, focused, solid, steadfast, unshakeable
really upright: aboveboard, exemplary, honest, moral, respectable
really upset: agitated, dismayed, distraught, distressed, wounded
really vague: ambiguous, fuzzy, imprecise, obscure, unclear
really vast: immeasurable, infinite, limitless, titanic, unbounded
really verdant: fertile, jungle-like, lush, overgrown, wild
really vicious: barbarous, brutal, inhuman, sadistic, savage
really villainous: atrocious, depraved, heinous, ignoble, maleficent
really wasteful: extravagant, improvident, inefficient, profligate, uneconomical
really weird: abnormal, spooky, strange, uncanny, unreal
really worried: alarmed, apprehensive, distressed, overwrought, tormented
really wounded: aggrieved, offended, pained, stung, upset
really wily: crafty, crooked, scheming, shrewd, underhanded
The Writer’s Lexicon series
and additional resources on my Facebook page.
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As usual, a very informative article. Thanks
Thanks, Robert.
Stay safe!
I really learned a lot and I now really hate the word really; undoubtably it’s finished for me; really.
I’m
really pleasedoverjoyed about that, Jay. 😉 Really.Thanks for stopping by again!
Hi Miss Kathy,
Wow, what a great list of alternatives.
I learned about that pesky word “really” some time ago when my critique partner told me I had too many in a story I wrote. I checked and found “really” a squillion times. Ack! I changed all of them using alternatives and it reads much better.
Yikes, so much to learn. I’m glad I found your site. You’ve helped me so much. Really, you have. 🙂
Keep on staying safe.
Gloved fist bump.
The Dogwoods are blooming!
I’m
really gladdelighted to hear from you again, Lenny.Dogwoods … I’d
really likelove to see some flowering trees, but it’s still too cold where I live.“Squillion” that’s a
really largehumongous number. 😉Keep on writing and staying safe, and best wishes for a bountiful spring with lots of success in your writing.
Ha ha. Cool reply.
Sending you some virtual blossoms from a pink Dogwood and a red Azalea.
They’re beautiful. Thanks!
Thanks, Kathy!
Helpful list!
My pleasure, Shelley.
Stay safe!
Thank you for this post. Many people use the word willy nilly, and at last I can write the word without knowing I am going to be pressed to replace it.
BTW If the word comment is supposed to disappear, it doesn’t. At least, not for me. So, I can’t see where my comment is supposed to begin. I would have commented a lot more often.
My pleasure, Tom.
I’m not sure what you meant by the word “comment,” but the comments area on all my blog posts is at the bottom of each post under “Please don’t be shy. Leave a reply.”
Thanks for all the Twitter shares.
Stay safe and warm!
Thanks for the list of alternatives, Kathy. This will be really helpful—I couldn’t resist.
Thanks for your nonresistance, Peter. 😉 I’m glad you found the list helpful.
Happy writing!